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Who the Hell is Phyllis?

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Armidale author Deni McKenzie-Sadleir is launching her newest book tonight- โ€˜Who the Hell is Phyllis?โ€™, so if you enjoy witty, raw and heart-felt stories this one is for you.

Following life through the eyes of a young Australian woman, navigating through a world when things just donโ€™t go to plan, this books strips back humanity as you explore the twists and turns of Phyllisโ€™ life, which was often foolish but also incredibly brave.

โ€œIn the beginning, I thought I was writing a family history, but soon realised it was a mystery.โ€ Said Deni.

But this is no Cinderella story, and it has taken Deni five years of research to get where the book it today.

โ€œThis book couldnโ€™t have been written until I was 78 as the missing piece in the puzzle didnโ€™t rear its head until then.โ€ Said Deni.

โ€œIt is not a biography, yet it is โ€“ however, on the whole, the people involved were not famous enough to have a complete biography done.โ€

โ€œIt is called historical fiction as there is not a genre called faction.โ€

The plot from the authorโ€™s own words

โ€œIn 1961, my father asked me to write to an old mate of his when I arrived in London. The chap responded with โ€œYou must be Phyllisโ€™s daughter.โ€ I immediately wrote to my parents asking, โ€˜Who the hell is Phyllis!โ€™โ€

โ€œThey gave me what I deemed a cock and bull story, much the same one they gave me when I got home. Realising that I was not going to get the truth, I shrugged my shoulders and got on with life.โ€

โ€œIn 2016, Vice Admiral Peter Jones with the Royal Australian Navy sent me an email saying โ€˜Deni, Iโ€™ve found your fatherโ€™s first wifeโ€™s second child by her second marriage. I think youโ€™d get onโ€™. Heโ€™d cc-in Mornay Bibby. I immediately wrote to her saying should she come to Australia, then Iโ€™d love her to come and stay. She wrote back immediately saying she was coming in 2 months time to visit her son in Toowoomba.โ€

โ€œThey both duly arrived. I asked her when her birthday was and it was the same as mine, only she was 3 years older.โ€

โ€œIโ€™d decided that I would ask her for her side of the story before giving mine. When she started by saying โ€˜After my aunt Vivienne diedโ€ฆโ€™ my stomach dropped! Poor Phyllis! Only 12 when her rock died โ€ฆ supposedly suicide.โ€

โ€œMornay came out again 2 years later. She had written a couple of little self-published family history books, but there was not much for me to go on. However, I thought there might be a book in it.โ€

โ€œMy first stop was The State Archives and there I found all my fatherโ€™s divorce papers, and I took a photo of the letter Phyllis had responded to and sent it to Mornay.โ€

โ€œMornay had never seen her motherโ€™s handwriting.โ€

Dive into a piece of Australian history tonight and meet the author and find out โ€˜Who the Hell is Phyllisโ€™.

Launch Details

When: Thursday August 8
Time: 6pm
Where: Boobooks, Armidale
Drinks and nibbles are provided


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